Menage A Trois SJ

Vietnamese Wedding PlannersSan Francisco, CA

About

Celebrated wedding planning and design company founded by a triple-negative breast cancer survivor who believes life is too short to hold back from creating the wedding of your dreams

🍵 Editorial Take

If her brand name doesn't give it away, Sushie brings a certain joie de vivre to every wedding she touches. Her process starts with understanding what couples genuinely value, followed by refreshingly candid advice about what is and isn't worth the money. She will flag budget creep, suggest substitutions she actually believes in, and provide surprisingly accurate floral estimates from inspo photos. Budget friendliness is a recurring theme in reviews, with couples saying they spent less without missing anything they cut.

Her design skills are equally praised. In addition to planning, the team offers rentals, custom draping, and florals, creating everything from elegant reception decor and dessert bars to beautiful backdrops for traditional tea ceremonies. Her complimentary lending library is a real perk too, with couples borrowing votives, card boxes, mam qua, arches, and other items they would otherwise need to buy and resell.

Sushie has a strong reputation for going above and beyond. She has coordinated equipment for an out-of-state DJ, hidden tissues inside a bride’s bouquet, and brought out fleece blankets after hearing the bride’s mother worry about the temperature. Clients describe her as exceptionally responsive, often answering texts at 2 a.m.

For Vietnamese families, the team’s bilingual fluency is a meaningful differentiator. Sushie helps couples balance relatives’ expectations while catching details they may not have considered, from keeping elders near the bridal table to ensuring there is enough food throughout the day and decor ready for tea ceremony photos. Family members traveling from Vietnam felt included, and Asian parents in particular tend to walk away impressed.

Best for couples who want a highly responsive planner with strong design instincts, cultural fluency, and the confidence to protect both their budget and the details that matter most.

Reviews

5.0(32 Google reviews)

Pricing

Starting at $4,200
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